Dr Ellie | Psychologist
Online Couples Therapy
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Online Couples Therapy
Hi! I’m Dr Ellie. Thank you so much for visiting my profile!
I'm a psychologist with 10 years' experience (and trained in umpteen different types of therapy!), but more important than that, I'm a HUMAN BEING who is continually learning and growing in my own relationships, so that I can help others!
The main thing I want you to know about me is that I LOVE PEOPLE and I am SUPER PASSIONATE about empowering individuals and couples to DISSOLVE their problems so they can enjoy HEALTHY, HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS!
And I like to do things a little bit differently, with just a sprinkle of ELLIE MAGIC!
I work with couples, who not only want to fix the problems in their relationship, but who really want their relationship to TAKE OFF!
What do I mean by that?
Well, I work with couples who BOTH want to GAIN MORE ENERGY, who want to come together to create more than they could on their own, and who want to continually GROW IN ATTRACTION to each other!
No more stagnation, no more feeling stuck or drained, no more quick fixes that hurt each other in the long term. Let’s do this thing for real!
In a nutshell, I work with couples who want a relationship that just keeps on getting better and better!
When couples first come to me, their relationship is usually in some sort of mess. I see it like a big bowl of spaghetti that needs untangling. And that’s what the first phase of couples’ sessions with me focus on.
Untangling everything, so that you as individuals can each understand WHO YOU ARE and WHAT YOU WANT from your relationship. I help you understand what energises you, how to communicate healthily and how to heal your own problems so you can then make an informed choice about what you want from your relationship going forward.
THEN, we can look at how to REPAIR the damage that has happened in your relationship so that your relationship is BETTER than it was before.
That’s right, not just back to how it was before your problems…. But BETTER!
An intimate relationship has the potential to be a huge part of what brings JOY, MEANING and FULFILMENT to your life. A SAFE and CREATIVE space in which you can be your true self, feel energised, flourish and benefit each other.
And it should be.
So, if you’re ready to take the first step towards the relationship that you truly desire, please send me a message.
I can’t wait to hear from you.
Online therapyAll sessions take place online via Zoom
Qualifications and registrationsBA (Hons) Psychology - University of Manchester, 2004
Doctorate in Counselling Psychology - Teeside University, 2013
Chartered Psychologist - British Psychological Society
SpecialisationsI specialise in helping unique human beings grow their self-esteem, have good mental health and dissolve their relationship problems so that they can have healthy, happy relationships that bring joy, meaning and fulfilment to their lives!
Each course of couples therapy is tailored to the particular couples needs, but typically lasts between 12 and 16 sessions.
Most common issues I support people with:SELF-ESTEEM - Oftentimes people don't realise just how important self-esteem is when it comes to relationships, but let me tell you, it is CRUCIAL! Common relationship issues such as people pleasing, self-sabotage, controlling behaviours, manipulation, infidelity, arguments, reassurance seeking and more, can all be a result of low self-esteem! I can help you grow your self-esteem to the point that you don't rely on your relationship to feel good about yourself, but CHOOSE to be together because of the value that you each uniquely bring to the relationship.
COMMUNICATION - Ooh, it's another biggy! WHAT we say, WHY we say it and HOW we say it is vital for healthy interactions and therefore happy relationships. I help couples with the ULTIMATE communication skills, that not only help to repair relationship problems, but also prevent further problems down the line.
MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEMS - I know this is such a HUGE category that covers all sorts of things, but the truth is, it's very hard to have a healthy relationship if you're own mental health is suffering. I can give you the understanding and skills needed to address common mental health problems that affect relationships including anxiety, depression, trauma, difficulty managing emotions, impulsive behaviours, addictions and more.
REPAIRING RELATIONSHIP DIFFICULTIES - Another huge category, I know! But over the course of my career I have seen so many of the issues when relationships GO WRONG..... arguments, cheating, break ups, co-dependency, isolation, enabling, loss, grief, heartache, manipulation, control, stagnation, abuse - the whole flipping caboodle! The important thing to know is, if both parties are willing and in agreement that it is what they both want, I can show you and guide you through the SEVEN STEPS OF REPAIR for ANY issue.
RELATIONSHIP TRANSFORMATION - Put all of the above together and essentially you have a recipe for relationship transformation! That's not to say that you can't enjoy and appreciate the things that you loved about your relationship previously, but rather, when you grow as individuals and grow together as a couple, you open up a whole new world of LOVE, JOY and FULFILMENT in your relationship.
- ✓ Couples counselling
- ✓ Couples therapy
- ✓ Marriage counselling
- ✓ Online relationship counselling
- ✓ Premarital counselling
- ✓ Relationship Counselling
Areas of counselling I can help with
- ✓ Addicted to love
- ✓ Adultery, affair, infidelity
- ✓ Autonomy in relationship
- ✓ Cheating
- ✓ Commitment phobia
- ✓ Communication problems
- ✓ Divorce
- ✓ Emotional infidelity
- ✓ Family problems
- ✓ Fear of abandonment
- ✓ I want a relationship
- ✓ Insecure in relationship
- ✓ Intimacy issues
- ✓ Jealousy
- ✓ Love sick
- ✓ Marriage problems
- ✓ Midlife crisis
- ✓ Relationship anxiety
- ✓ Relationship fights
- ✓ Self love
- ✓ Sex addiction
Fees£100 per hour.
Discount of £15 per hour available for block bookings of four or more sessions. (E.g £340 upfront instead of £400 for 4 x sessions)
Availability (Opening hours)
|Monday||9am - 9pm|
|Tuesday||9am - 9pm|
|Wednesday||9am - 9pm|
|Thursday||9am - 9pm|
|Friday||9am - 9pm|
|Saturday||9am - 5pm|
- ✓ United Kingdom
- ✓ (Online) Couples counselling
- ✓ Relationship counselling
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