Online Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist - Winchester - Elinor

	Online Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy Winchester SO23 8QY Winchester
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Elinor | Online Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist

Online Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy Winchester

--- We work 100% online via Zoom ---

**Immediate availability for new clients looking to repair and understand their relationships**

My name is Elinor and I am a qualified Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist. I work with both individuals and couples experiencing relationship and sexual difficulties. I work fully online and also run a team of qualified Relationship Therapists.

Our work is tailored to you, resulting in a personalised, professional and effective therapeutic experience.

We specialise in:

helping couples communicate better, reduce arguments and improve their connection
helping individual clients to feel more empowered, repair their self esteem, and learn to love themselves again
helping men and women struggling with sexual difficulties to get their spark back and enjoy their sex life again
helping divorcing couples separate more amicably

I am based in Hampshire but work remotely 100% of the time via Zoom, and am only accepting referrals for clients looking for online therapy. We find online sessions are very effective due to the higher attendance rate and means that clients aren't limited by location when choosing a suitable therapist.

How we work

Along with my team of therapists, we offer several ways of working:

Long and short term therapy for couples and individuals (approx 8-25 sessions on average)
One-off sessions for a quick blast of professional guidance
A block of 4-6 Therepeutic Coaching session

We work with everyone whether they are married, single, in a long term relationship, in an open relationship or something else! We celebrate the potential of all types of relationships and welcome clients of all sexual, gender and relationship diversities. We focus on the patterns and dynamics of your relationship and try to understand what has led to some of these issues occurring, without looking to blame or shame.

Types of issues

We see clients for a wide range of reasons, which may include:

Losing the spark in their relationship and feeling disconnected
Arguments and poor communication
Finding it difficult to talk about important topics - 'brushing things under the rug'
Poor self esteem or body image
Loving their partner but not being 'in love' anymore
Struggles with low libido/ not feeling much sexual desire for their partner
Infidelity, affairs and trust issues
Difficulties Co-Parenting with an Ex

Fertility issues
Support during divorce or relationship breakdown
Sexual and intimacy difficulties including unreliable erections, male and female low desire, pain, and ejaculation difficulties
Exploring your sexuality or gender identity
Difficulties dating or maintaining relationships
Support after sexual trauma/abuse

I have over 15 years of experience working and volunteering in mental health services, including the NHS, Relate, The Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships and as a School Counsellor. I am fully insured and a member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) and the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I offer a compassionate, open minded, sex positive and professional approach, based on Systemic, Psychodynamic and CBT principles and the latest psychosexual therapy research.

I offer a 15 minute free consultation so please do contact me to arrange this, during which I would be happy to discuss my fee options.

If you would like to know more or book an appointment, please send me a message via the send a message - button.

Online therapy

I only offer online therapy via Zoom, or Facetime if preferred. Online therapy is very similar to face to face therapy, and I have found that many clients find that it fits better into their other life commitments than attending face to face.

Please feel free to ask any questions or discuss any concerns you might have about starting online counselling.

Qualifications and registrations

My Qualifications:

BSc Psychology (University of Exeter)
PGDip Low Intensity Cognitive Behavioural Interventions (UCL)
Graduate Certificate Theory and Skills of Psychodynamic Couple and Individual Counselling and Psychotherapy (Tavistock Relationships/UEL)
Level 5 Diploma Relationship Counselling (Relate)
Diploma in Integrative Psychosexual Therapy (Centre for Psychosexual Health)

I have also taken shorter training in:

Transactional Analysis
Infant Loss
Pregnancy after Loss
Gender Awareness and Trans Clients
Domestic Violence and Abuse
Motivational Interviewing
Suicide Risk and Support
Child Protection and Safeguarding
Mental Health Awareness
Caring for Gender non Conforming Teenagers
Introduction to Emotionally Focused Therapy
Behavioural Activation for Adolescents

I am an Accredited Registered Member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) and an Accredited Member of the College for Sex and Relationship Therapy (COSRT) abide by their Code of Ethics and Conduct.

Registrations

I offer therapy in

✓ English

Specialisations

1. Relationship Issues
2. Communication
3. Intimacy
4. Divorce
5. Co-Parenting
6. Arguments
7. Sex
8. Break Ups
9. Parenting
10. Marriage

Specialisations and Expertises

We specialise in:

helping couples reconnect, improve communication and have fun in their relationship once more
helping individuals overcome life's challenges and improve their relationship with themselves
helping men and women struggling with sexual difficulties to get their spark back and enjoy their sex life again
helping couples separate and divorce healthily - 'Conscious Uncoupling'
plus a broader range of relationship and psychosexual difficulties

Most common issues I support people with:

Women struggling with a low sex drive and who want to get their sex life back on track
Couples who feel they have lost the spark in their relationship and who want to feel connected again.
Individuals needing support after relationship breakdown/other life traumas
Separated/Divorced Couples who want to co-parent healthily and reduce conflict
Couples looking to improve communication and reduce arguments and conflict

Therapies offered

Areas of counselling I can help with

Fees

Fees range from £75 - £190 depending on the therapist

Availability (Opening hours)

Monday	9am-8pm
Tuesday	9.30am - 8pm
Wednesday	8am - 8.30pm
Thursday	9am - 8pm
Friday	9am - 7pm
Saturday	-
Sunday	-

Reviews Online Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy Winchester

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Rating of 5 out of 5
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One of my best decisions was to start therapy with Elinor

Starting relationship therapy and continuing therapy at times seemed quite a daunting prospect, and it is safe to say I was a little scared to begin with. However, working with Elinor has been transformative and honestly one of the best decisions I have ever made. I cannot thank her enough for her support, kindness, and wisdom on this particular journey. For anyone who might be unsure, all I can say is be brave and reach out to Elinor, you won’t regret it. Put simply, she is brilliant.

Mrs H | Southampton | 4 Apr 2025

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