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Elinor | Online Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist
Online Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy Winchester
--- I work 100% online via Zoom ---
**Immediate availability for new clients looking to transform their relationships**
My name is Elinor and I am a qualified Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist. I work with both individuals and couples experiencing relationship and sexual difficulties. I work fully online. My work is tailored to you, resulting in a personalised, professional and effective therapeutic experience.
I specialise in:
- helping couples communicate better, reduce arguments and improve their connection
- helping individual clients to feel more empowered, repair their self esteem, and learn to love themselves again
- helping men and women struggling with sexual difficulties to get their spark back and enjoy their sex life again
- helping divorcing couples separate more amicably
I am based in Hampshire but work remotely 100% of the time via Zoom, and am only accepting referrals for clients looking for online therapy. I find online sessions are very effective due to the higher attendance rate and means that clients aren't limited by location when choosing a suitable therapist.
How I work
I offer several ways of working:- Long and short term therapy for couples and individuals (approx 8-25 sessions on average)
- One-off sessions for a quick blast of professional guidance
- A block of 4-6 Therepeutic Coaching session
Types of issues
I see clients for a wide range of reasons, which may include:- Losing the spark in their relationship
- Poor self esteem or body image
- Loving their partner but not being 'in love' anymore
- Struggles with low libido/ not feeling much sexual desire for their partner
- Infidelity, affairs and trust issues
- Communication difficulties and arguments
- Reconnecting as a couple
- Fertility issues
- Support during divorce or relationship breakdown
- Sexual and intimacy difficulties including unreliable erections, male and female low desire, pain, and ejaculation difficulties
- Exploring your sexuality or gender identity
- Difficulties dating or maintaining relationships
- Support after sexual trauma/abuse
I have over 15 years of experience working and volunteering in mental health services, including the NHS, Relate, The Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships and as a School Counsellor. I am fully insured and a member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) and the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I offer a compassionate, open minded, sex positive and professional approach, based on Systemic, Psychodynamic and CBT principles and the latest psychosexual therapy research.
I offer a 15 minute free consultation so please do contact me to arrange this, during which I would be happy to discuss my fee options.
If you would like to know more or book an appointment, please send me a message via the send a message - button.
Online therapy
I offer online therapy via Zoom, or Facetime if preferred. Online therapy is very similar to face to face therapy, and I have found that many clients find that it fits better into their other life commitments than attending face to face.
Please feel free to ask any questions or discuss any concerns you might have about starting online counselling.
Qualifications and registrations
My Qualifications:
- BSc Psychology (University of Exeter)
- PGDip Low Intensity Cognitive Behavioural Interventions (UCL)
- Graduate Certificate Theory and Skills of Psychodynamic Couple and Individual Counselling and Psychotherapy (Tavistock Relationships/UEL)
- Level 5 Diploma Relationship Counselling (Relate)
- Diploma in Integrative Psychosexual Therapy (Centre for Psychosexual Health)
I have also taken shorter training in:
- Transactional Analysis
- Infant Loss
- Pregnancy after Loss
- Gender Awareness and Trans Clients
- Domestic Violence and Abuse
- Motivational Interviewing
- Suicide Risk and Support
- Child Protection and Safeguarding
- Mental Health Awareness
- Caring for Gender non Conforming Teenagers
- Introduction to Emotionally Focused Therapy
- Behavioural Activation for Adolescents
I am an Accredited Registered Member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) and a Registered Member of the College for Sex and Relationship Therapy (COSRT) abide by their Code of Ethics and Conduct.
Registrations
- COSRT - College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists
- NCPS - the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society
I offer therapy in
Specialisations
I specialise in:
- helping couples reconnect, improve communication and have fun in their relationship once more
- helping individuals overcome life's challenges and improve their relationship with themselves
- helping men and women struggling with sexual difficulties to get their spark back and enjoy their sex life again
- helping couples reconnect, improve communication and have fun in their relationship once more
- plus a broader range of relationship and psychosexual difficulties
Most common issues I support people with:
- Women struggling with a low sex drive and who want to get their sex life back on track
- Couples who feel they have lost the spark in their relationship and who want to feel excited about each other again.
- Individuals needing support after relationship breakdown/other life traumas
- Parents trying to protect & enhance their couple relationship despite the demands of children and family life
- Couples looking to improve communication and reduce arguments and conflict
Therapies offered
Areas of counselling I can help with
- ✓ Addicted to love
- ✓ Adultery, affair, infidelity
- ✓ Autonomy in relationship
- ✓ Cheating
- ✓ Closed or open relationship
- ✓ Commitment phobia
- ✓ Communication problems
- ✓ Cultural differences
- ✓ Divorce
- ✓ Emotional infidelity
- ✓ Family problems
- ✓ Fear of abandonment
- ✓ I want a relationship
- ✓ Insecure in relationship
- ✓ Intimacy issues
- ✓ Jealousy
- ✓ Love sick
- ✓ Marriage problems
- ✓ Midlife crisis
- ✓ Relationship anxiety
- ✓ Relationship fights
- ✓ Self love
- ✓ Sex addiction
- ✓ Sexual difficulties
Fees
Fees range from £80 - £190 for the Initial Assessment Session and £65 - £110 for ongoing sessions.
Availability (Opening hours)
Monday | 9am-7pm |
Tuesday | 9.30am - 3pm |
Wednesday | 8am - 8.30pm |
Thursday | 9am - 8pm |
Friday | 9.30am - 2pm |
Saturday | - |
Sunday | - |
Location
Reviews Online Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy Winchester
Below you will find a review about Online Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy Winchester - Elinor
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One of my best decisions was to start therapy with Elinor
Starting relationship therapy and continuing therapy at times seemed quite a daunting prospect, and it is safe to say I was a little scared to begin with. However, working with Elinor has been transformative and honestly one of the best decisions I have ever made. I cannot thank her enough for her support, kindness, and wisdom on this particular journey. For anyone who might be unsure, all I can say is be brave and reach out to Elinor, you won’t regret it. Put simply, she is brilliant.
Mrs H | Southampton | 4 Apr 2025
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