Ali | Certified Therapist

Imago is a form of couples counselling which is focused on enabling you and your partner to break destructive patterns of behaviour, to reconnect at a deeper level and to experience understanding, love and joy together again. The way in which Imago relationship therapy does this is through the Imago dialogue process. This is a structured way of talking which teaches you and your partner how to talk safely about even the most vulnerable and painful parts of your relationship.

Safety is key to this process because when we feel unsafe the most natural and understandable thing for us to do is to defend ourselves. But, unfortunately, the behaviours which we use to defend ourselves almost always destroy connection and erode love and joy. Keeping each other emotionally safe as you talk is therefore the key to rediscovering the connection that you have lost.

Imago therapy was developed 40 years ago by Harville and Helen Hendrix and is a tried and tested approach to couples counselling which is now practised by counsellors around the world. The last four decades have proved Imago to be a powerful path to change for those couples who are willing to work hard, both in sessions and at home, to improve their relationship. Working with me you and your partner will therefore need to do the hard work of vulnerably talking to each other about your differences, desires and needs. My job is to hold you in the process: to guide and coach you through it. I will teach you how to keep each other safe, how to reintroduce positivity and appreciation into your relationship and how to listen to one another in ways that leave you both feeling more connected, understood and loved.