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Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy Southend on Sea
Bridgewater Drive 327
SS0 0HA Southend-on-Sea
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Musonda | Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy

Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy Southend on Sea

Hello. I am Musonda, a COSRT-registered Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, specializing in supporting individuals and couples who wish to work through sexual or relationship difficulties to improve relational and sexual well-being, intimacy, and connection. You may just wish to deepen your understanding of yourself and your sexuality, I am committed to helping you on that empowering journey of self-discovery and growth.

 

Psychosexual Therapy is a structured talking therapy designed to address both sexual and relational challenges. My approach is personalized, combining client-centred techniques like Sensate Focus, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and mindfulness. As a Relational Integrative Psychotherapist with training in psychodynamic, humanistic, and person-centred theories, I use an integrated approach to understand you and the issues leading to emotional, sexual, and relational wellbeing.

Whether you are navigating challenges such as arousal and desire issues, sexual pain or vaginismus, difficulties with orgasms, erections, or ejaculation, or dealing with life transitions, communication barriers, conflict, conscious uncoupling, infidelity, or the complexities of cross-cultural relationships, I am here to support you.

 

What I love most about my work is witnessing the unique journeys of individuals and couples as they navigate challenges, supporting them toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships—both sexual and general. My goal is for clients to feel empowered and capable of making the life changes they seek.

The therapy process typically follows these steps:

  • Initial Assessment: Both partners (if attending as a couple) share their perspectives and goals for change. I assess the suitability for psychosexual therapy and begin to understand the concerns in detail.

  • Individual History Taking: Each person meets separately to discuss their personal history, including biological, psychological, and social factors affecting the issues presented.

  • Formulation: I synthesize the information from the history-taking sessions to create a clear understanding of the issues and establish therapy goals.

  • Roundtable: We come together to review the formulation, set goals, and discuss tasks to work on outside of sessions, supporting progress.

  • Treatment Phase: This phase focuses on working toward the goals, with regular reviews to track progress. Suggested work will be done in the privacy of your home.  Throughout the process, we will include psychoeducation on related topics including sexual function, intimacy, and communication.

  • Ending Therapy: The psychosexual therapy process typically lasts 16-20 sessions from initial assessment, depending on the issues at hand. We will take time to process the ending together when it’s appropriate for you. If therapy is no longer safe or effective, I will discuss ending the process and refer you to other services if needed.

 

The therapeutic space is designed to ensure you feel safe, supported, and free to express yourself without judgment. This is your journey, and I’m here to listen, validate your experiences, and support you through your process.

Please do get in touch and let us talk.

 

 

Musonda

Online therapy

I use Zoom video or Microsoft teams or telephone in my online work.  What is most important is what you are comfortable with, and I am happy to discuss and meet your needs if possible. 

If you are near my counselling rooms in Southend-on-Sea, I also offer face to face therapy, which can be arranged.  


Some clients have found online therapy suitable as it offers more flexibility for evenings and weekend sessions.  The online option also enables you to have therapy from wherever you are in the UK and Europe. It is therapy clients can have in the comfort and privacy of their own homes.

Qualifications and registrations

MSc Contemporary Psychosexual Therapy (Hull University, through Doncaster College)

BA (Hons) Theology and Counselling (Middlesex University, through London School of Theology)

Bereavement Counselling Certificate - Cruse Bereavement UK


PROFESSIONAL MEMBERSHIPS

  • In addition to the memberships listed below, I am a member of BAATN UK (Black, African and Asian Therapy Network)


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Specialisations

  • 1. Intimacy issues
  • 2. Conflict/arguments
  • 3. Communication issues
  • 4. Infidelity
  • 5. Sexual Pain
  • 6. Ejaculatory issues
  • 7. Erectile issues
  • 8. Orgasmic problems
  • 9. Aging and life changes
  • 10. Conscious Uncoupling

Most common issues I support people with:

Sexual dysfunction including:
  • Arousal difficulties
  • Sexual pain and Vaginismus
  • Erectile Dysfunction
  • Premature (Early) Ejaculation
  • Delayed Ejaculation
  • Low/no desire

Relationship Issues including:
  • Communication
  • Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Conscious break up or Conscious Uncoupling
  • Cross-cultural Relationships

Fees

Couples: £110 per session

Individuals: £90 

Session Duration: 50 minutes

I encourage clients to start with weekly sessions, especially during the initial assessments or information gathering period (history-taking process).

Once the formulation and treatment plan are discussed and agreed, Couples may choose to switch to fortnightly sessions to allow ample time to complete any suggested exercises. All recommended tasks will be completed in the privacy of your home and reviewed during our sessions.

Availability (Opening hours)

Monday 08:00 - 20:00
Tuesday 08:00 - 20:00
Wednesday -
Thursday 08:00 - 20:00
Friday 08:00 - 20:00
Saturday 14:00 - 18:00
Sunday CLOSED

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I had a wonderful experience during my sessions at Relate Nottinghamshire, and much of that is thanks to my therapist, Musonda. Her support and guidance profoundly shifted my perspective and helped me navigate the challenges I was facing. Musonda was compassionate, professional, and truly committed to my well-being.

| 24 Dec 2024
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