Ruthie | Imago Couples Therapist

Online Relationship Counselling

Hello my name is Ruthie and I work on Zoom Internationally - countries included so far  USA, Russia, Germany, Saudi Arabia, Israel and Holland. Sometimes the couple may even be in different countries to each other and the three of us work successfully together on Zoom.

I see my role as bringing couples back into connectivity, love and passion wherever possible.  On the few occasions where this may be impossible we will work to make things smoother and easier for a couple who are insistent on separation and especially their children.

I totally believe in the concept of marriage/partnership and that it can work if the couple are willing to learn new tools and do the work. This includes situations even where there have been affairs (emotional or physical)and porn addicition. The Imago method which I use is about 'no shame, no blame and no criticism' rather to express our feelings of hurt and pain and to be heard, to be validated  and to learn how to listen to the other.

Sometimes one of the parties will want or need a session on their own due to their own 'stuff' that they have bought into the marriage and I will also work with individuals in these cases if it will benefit the couple. No two couples have identical issues and I make a bespoke programme for each couple.

I love seeing couples regain confidence in themselves and in their marriage/realtionship I would be very happy to offer you a free 15 minute Zoom consultation for you to decide if we are a good match.