Couples & Relationship Therapist - London - Shivon

	Relationship Therapy London Longcroft House 2-8 Victoria Avenue EC2M 4NS London
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Shivon | Couples & Relationship Therapist

Relationship Therapy London

A warm welcome to my practice in London and online across the UK which provides an inclusive therapeutic space for couples and all types of relationships seeking clarity, connection, healing and growth.

I am a specialist couples and relationship therapist and am aware that taking the step to seek relationship support can feel overwhelming, but simply by being here you have already shown strength. Whether you are navigating challenges as a couple, working through family or co-parenting dynamics, exploring non-traditional or blended relationships, want to improve communication, reduce conflict, rebuild trust, and strengthen emotional connection. I will support you with compassion and direction,

Therapy provides a supportive space to understand what is happening beneath the surface and to develop healthier, more secure ways of relating.

What you can expect

I provide a warm, professional, confidential and non-judgmental spae where you can explore these challenges. Together we will look at:

What is happening in your relationship and why
Communication patterns and emotional triggers
Attachment styles and unmet needs
How stress anxiety or past trauma impacts your connection
Healthy ways of relating, understanding and rebuilding closeness

When words are not enough I work creatively and integratively to help couples, parents and their adult child, siblings to reconnect beyond communication and understand what is underneath the words or the silence.

We may also explore how your body holds tension and stress for example,tightness in the neck, heaviness in the chest or feeling overwhelmed and how these sensations influence your emotional responses weithin the relaitonship.

I draw from gestalt, imago therapy, person centred, transactional analysis, emotionally focused therapy (EFT), Gottman Method and attachment theory to help clients understand the deeper needs beneath conflict. This includes exploring not just the arguments or silences but the emotions that drive them helping you to feel seen, heard and close again.

When relevant, I also integrate psychoeducation around neurodivergence, emotional regulation, and trauma-informed care—helping partners understand not just what is happening between them, but why, and how to shift it together.

It is important that each client feels seen, supported, and empowered to create lasting change. Together, we will work toward a relationship that feels safe, connected, and aligned with both partners’ values and needs.

Whatever brings you here, I can help you to slow down the cycle of conflict so you can listen and be heard by each other.

Locations

I work from three locations London Liverpool Street, King's Cross and Enfield (North London) as well as online throughout the UK.

How to get in touch

Finding the right relationship therapist is important. I offer a free 20 minute consultation (telephone or online video call) with no pressure to commit. This is an opportunity to understand your needs and see if we are a good fit. If you would like to know more or book an appointment, please send me a message via the send a message - button.

You do not have to navigate this alone.
Let's take the first step together.

"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you" - Maya Angelou

Online therapy

Online therapy offers the same professional support as in-person sessions, with the added convenience of meeting from your own home or another private space. We will connect securely via a HIPAA-compliant video platform such as Zoom, ensuring your privacy and comfort throughout each session.

You will receive a link before each appointment. Online sessions are flexible and designed to fit your schedule, so that you can focus on your relationship growth without the additional travel or stress.

Qualifications and registrations

Registered with the British Association for Counselling and Pschotherapy and National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society
Certificate in Couples & Relationship Therapy CORST accredited
Professional Diploma in Integrative Therapeutic Counselling
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy Certificate of Proficiency
Tavistock Relationships - ADHD in Adult Psychotherapy
Cognitive Stimulation Therapy
Human Givens Couples therapy
Mothers and Daughters - A complex couple - CPD
ADHD and Autism Informed Practitioner
UKAAN Psychosocial Support and Skills training for Adults with ADHD
Dialectical Behavioural Therapy Certification training - in progress
CPCAB Certificate in Counselling Children, Young People and Families
CPCAB Therapeutic Group Facilitation Training
CPCAB Certificate Creative Counselling Training
Certificate in Counselling Skills & Studies (Psychodynamic, Person-Centred & CBT)
PG (Masters Level) SEN ADHD (University of South Wales)
BSc (Hons) in Social Sciences (Psychology & Criminology)
Certificate in Professional Education - Understanding & Supporting Children and Young People with ADHD (University of Leicester)
LOCN Family and Childcare: Group Facilitation Training Qualification
Certificate Addressing Post-Natal Depression (Approved by the British Psychological Society)
Certificate - Infant Loss Training - Foundation for Infant Loss

Registrations

I offer therapy in

✓ English

Specialisations

1. Grief and Loss
2. Affairs and Betrayal
3. ADHD and Autism
4. Fertility and pregnancy
5. Communication / Conflict
6. Family issues
7. Life goals
8. Pre-marital counselling
9. Life Transitions, midlife
10. Intimacy issues

Specialisations and Expertises

Relationships are central to our emotional wellbeing and I specialisew in supporting adults with:

Supporting couples where ADHD or autism impacts communication and daily life
Navigating fertility challenges and family planning decisions
Bereavement, Grief and loss
Premarital and early marriage counseling to build strong relationship foundations
Helping couples manage and resolve conflict, communication issues, and experiences of betrayal, including infidelity and emotional affairs
Addressing feelings of estrangement or emotional disconnection
Supporting couples affected by cognitive impairments such as dementia or brain fog, and their impact on relationship dynamics
Life transitions: parenting, fertility challenges, menopause, loss, career stress
Anxiety or emotional overwhelm affecting the relationship.
Abandonment, estrangement and family issues

Duraiton of therapy

The length of therapy varies depending on each couple's goals and presenting concerns.
Clients engage in therapy for appeoximately 6-20 sessions allowing enough time to build trust, uncover underlying issues, practice new sills and create lasting change.
Some clients benefit from shorter-term work focusing on specific challenges, while others prefer longer-term support to navigate ongoing or complex relationship dynamics.

Most common issues I support people with:

Communication breakdowns and recurring conflict
Emotional distance and loss of intimacy
Trust repair after betrayal or secrecy
Different life goals such as having a family
Fertility issues
Attachment dynamics (anxious, avoidant, disorganised)
Neurodivergence such as coping with ADHD or autism in relationships
Life transitions, parenting, or differing future goals
Premarital or pre-commitment counselling
Cultural differences

Therapies offered

Areas of counselling I can help with

Fees

Couples and other Relationships

Enfield

£85 per 50-minute session
£125 per 90-minute session

City and Central London - Liverpool Street and King's Cross

£100 per 50-minute session
£145 per 90-minute session

I offer limited concessions and at times offer some flexibility regarding my availability
Please enquire.

Availability (Opening hours)

Monday	8.00 am - 10.00 pm
Tuesday	9.00 am - 8.00 pm
Wednesday	8.00 am - 10.00 pm
Thursday	12.00 pm - 10.30 pm
Friday	-
Saturday	8.00 am - 4.00 pm
Sunday	-

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