Sam | Relationship & Psychosexual Therapist

Introduction

Hi I’m Sam. 

I'm passionate about assisting couples and individuals to deepen emotional and physical intimacy, improve communication, and effectively navigate relationship difficulties. I’ve always been drawn to helping people make sense of what feels difficult or keeps them stuck. I’ve worked as a Relationship Therapist for over 18 years and also a trained specialist in Sex/Psychosexual Therapy - dual COSRT registered. This means I can help clients address both issues where necessary. 

Couple Therapy -
My work with clients usually begins with resolving communication and conflict difficulties so each of you feel understood. This helps to rebuild your relationship and provide a firmer foundation to address the bigger picture of what has become a problem for you both. Trust may have been damaged by years of feeling unheard, or perhaps due to betrayal as a result of an affair. Common feelings of anger, sadness, shame or guilt can often hinder progress, making it difficult to determine next steps without help.

Unresolved emotions can explain why recurring conflicts occur no matter how much you both try to work things out. Other examples of my work with you could look at anxiety, self-esteem, life direction, couple dynamics or sexual problems. 


Session Details –

Each session lasts for one hour, with flexibility to accommodate short-term (3-6 sessions) or long-term ongoing therapy depending on your needs. In the first session I complete an assessment that identifies the problem and clarifies your goals. This helps when I review progress with you in subsequent sessions to keep the therapy on track. I work in person face to face or online/phone providing access and convenience for clients to incorporate into their existing commitments. I currently have some evening and Saturday morning capacity, alongside my weekday availability.

I have successfully supported couples who initially felt hopeless, helping them achieve more fulfilling relationships and rediscover sexual pleasure. Additionally, I have considerable experience working with clients in demanding professions, such as the emergency services (Police, GPs, Fire Service, Paramedics), and am attuned to the particular stresses these individuals encounter.

As a Psychosexual Therapist and Relationship Therapist my aim is to facilitate a protected space in sessions that encourages clients to build deeper connections, emotional and physical intimacy, improve communication, and that addresses complex relational and sexual challenges. This is offered through a tailored, empathetic and integrative therapeutic approach.