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Paul | Psychotherapist
Psychotherapy London
In my work as a therapist, I help couples untangle the difficult dynamics that keep them stuck in repetitive conflict. You may be experiencing arguments that go nowhere, a growing distance between you, or a sense of disconnection that has left you feeling like roommates rather than partners. When communication has broken down and you're struggling to understand each other, it can feel like you're caught in a cycle with no way out.
My approach is to create a non-judgmental and confidential space where you can both be heard. I'll work with you to get to the heart of what's happening and help you see the underlying patterns in your relationship. My strength lies in taking these complex issues and framing them in a clear, digestible way so that you can move beyond frustration and truly understand one another.
I help couples navigate a wide range of issues, including communication breakdown, recurring arguments, trust, sexual issues, and the impact of major life changes. My goal is to equip you with the tools to talk more openly, reconnect on a deeper level, and build a more resilient and lasting partnership.
If you’re ready to begin the work of understanding each other again, please reach out to schedule a consultation.
Online therapy
All of our sessions are conducted securely using Zoom. The platform is encrypted to protect your privacy and ensure our conversations remain confidential. Once your session is booked, you will receive a unique and private meeting link. To ensure a smooth and productive experience, I recommend that you find a quiet, private space with a stable internet connection where you can speak openly without interruption.
My commitment to your privacy is absolute. All aspects of our therapeutic relationship, including what we discuss and the fact that you are attending therapy, are held in the strictest confidence. My practice adheres to the ethical framework of the UKCP, guaranteeing the highest standards of confidentiality and professional conduct.
Qualifications and registrations
I hold a professional qualification in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy from The Guild of Psychotherapists. I am a Full Clinical Member of the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP), a registration that demonstrates I meet the highest standards of professional training and ethical practice.I trained at The Guild of Psychotherapists, ChildLine, and the Tavistock Couples Unit.
Registrations
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Most common issues I support people with:
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Communication breakdown When conversations consistently turn into arguments, or you feel like you're talking at each other without truly being heard. I help couples learn to listen, express their needs openly, and rebuild a foundation of mutual understanding.
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Trust and infidelity Following a breach of trust - whether it's due to an affair, broken promises, or deception - couples can feel lost and unsure of how to move forward. We can work together to explore the impact of these events and, if desired, begin the difficult process of rebuilding trust.
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Repetitive conflict When you find yourselves having the same argument over and over again without resolution. I help identify the underlying patterns driving these conflicts and develop new ways to respond, allowing you to move beyond frustration and break the cycle.
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Sexual issues and intimacy Couples may face challenges with sexual desire, intimacy, and connection, which can lead to feelings of rejection and misunderstanding. In a safe and non-judgmental space, we can explore these sensitive topics and work towards renewed intimacy and a fulfilling sexual relationship.
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Impact of life changes Major life events - such as having a child, career changes, or illness - can put significant stress on a partnership. I support couples in navigating these transitions and adapting to new roles and responsibilities while strengthening their connection.
Availability (Opening hours)
| Monday | - |
| Tuesday | 8am - 2pm |
| Wednesday | 9am - 2pm |
| Thursday | 12pm - 9pm |
| Friday | - |
| Saturday | - |
| Sunday | - |
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- ✓ United Kingdom
- ✓ (Online) Couples counselling
- ✓ Relationship counselling