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Lena | Online Couple Psychosexual therapist
Introduction
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Are you and your partner feeling disconnected? Struggling with intimacy, trust, or communication?
Perhaps you're facing infidelity, considering separation, or simply feel like you've lost the spark that brought you together. You don't have to figure this out alone.
I'm a specialist psychosexual therapist with over 30 years' experience, trained at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships. I work online with couples and individuals, helping you navigate some of the most personal and sensitive challenges in your relationship.
I specialise in couples therapy and psychosexual work, including desire differences, intimacy difficulties, sexual dysfunction, and communication breakdown. Whether you're struggling to reconnect after infidelity, navigating different needs in the bedroom, or feeling stuck in a cycle of conflict, I can help you find a way through, together.
I work with all kinds of relationship configurations, whether it's traditional monogamy, polyamory, or open partnerships. I also have specialist experience with neurodivergent couples, including where one or both partners are Autistic or have ADHD.
I tailor my approach to your relationship, there's no one-size-fits-all in therapy. I draw on psychodynamic, attachment-based, and trauma-focused methods, alongside EMDR and NLP, depending on what you both need. Sessions are warm, honest, and practical, you'll leave with real understanding, not just theory.
I know reaching out as a couple takes courage, especially when the issues feel deeply personal. I create a space where you can both be completely honest about your relationship, your desires, your fears, without judgement. Just come as you are, and we'll work it out together.
All sessions are online via Zoom, Google Meet, WhatsApp, FaceTime, or phone, flexible therapy that fits around your life, wherever you are in the world. Reduced fees are available, just ask.
Online therapy
I work solely online, offering flexible sessions that fit around your life, wherever you are in the world. Online therapy means you can access specialist support from the comfort and privacy of your own home, without the need to travel.
I use Zoom, Google Meet, WhatsApp, FaceTime, and phone. All you need is a stable internet connection and a private space where you won't be interrupted.
Online sessions are just as effective as in-person therapy, and many clients find they feel more at ease opening up from their own environment, particularly when discussing sensitive or intimate issues.
Qualifications and registrations
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MSc in Psychosexual Psychotherapy
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PG Diploma in Couples and Individual Psychodynamic Counselling and Psychotherapy
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Diploma in Clinical and Pastoral Counselling
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Diploma in Psychology
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Diploma in Life Coaching
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Licensed NLP Master
- PG Cert. in Autism
Registrations
- COSRT - College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists
- BACP - The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
I offer therapy in
Specialisations
- 1. Couples Therapy
- 2. Infidelity
- 3. Divorce and separation
- 4. Pre-marital Counselling
- 5. Sex therapy
- 6. Intimacy issues
- 7. EMDR
- 8. Sexual Dysfunction
- 9. Neurodivergence and ADHD
- 10. Trauma and abuse
Specialisations and Expertises
I specialise in helping individuals and couples navigate a wide range of personal, emotional, and relational challenges.
My core focus includes: psychosexual therapy for desire difficulties, performance anxiety, sexual dysfunction, and intimacy barriers; helping clients heal from childhood abuse, domestic abuse, sexual violence, and trauma (including PTSD); support for those exploring personal patterns around intimacy, connection, and self-worth; understanding how neurodivergence, including Autism and ADHD, impacts emotional wellbeing, relationships, and intimacy; and couples therapy for communication breakdown, conflict, infidelity, separation, and disconnection.
I tailor my approach using psychodynamic, attachment-based, and trauma-focused methods, alongside EMDR and NLP. Sessions typically range from 6 to 20 depending on the complexity of the issues, though some clients find benefit in just a few sessions while others prefer longer-term support. There is no fixed commitment, we work at your pace.
Most common issues I support people with:
- Bisexual
- Codependency
- Divorce
- Domestic Abuse
- Infidelity
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Relationship Issues
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Sexual Abuse
- Sexual Addiction
- Trauma and PTSD
Therapies offered
Areas of counselling I can help with
- ✓ Adultery, affair, infidelity
- ✓ Cheating
- ✓ Closed or open relationship
- ✓ Communication problems
- ✓ Divorce
Fees
50 minutes online counselling session £150
Free 15-minute introductory call available .
I accept payment by bank transfer, card, or direct debit. Reduced fees are available, please enquiry about our fee structure at you first appointment.
I can also provide invoices suitable for insurance reimbursement.
Availability (Opening hours)
| Monday | 9am - 8pm |
| Tuesday | 9am - 8pm |
| Wednesday | 9am - 8pm |
| Thursday | 9am - 8pm |
| Friday | 9am - 1pm |
| Saturday | Closed |
| Sunday | Closed |
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- ✓ United Kingdom
- ✓ (Online) Couples counselling
- ✓ Relationship counselling