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My husband sends sexual whatsapp messages to a colleague

I recently found out that my husband is having contact with a colleague via whatsapp. It's not only about work, but clearly sexual and exciting messages.

I never look in his phone, but I started to feel suspicious, because he is often in his study in the evenings. I thought he was working, but when I came in, he was quickly putting his phone aside.

A few days later I decided to check his phone and he deleted everything, but there were some messages from this woman. When I confronted him with that, he said it didn't mean anything because it were only some whatsapp messages, a kind of play. To me it felt more like cheating.

What should I do with this?


Kaja
> 2 years ago
last response: 26-03-2024

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Jee, what a story. I can imagine in it is not easy to discover you have different ideas about boundaries. That you feel it is cheating and that he feels it's jokes. If I would be in your place I would find that difficult.

I hope that you are able to keep talking about this. In a constructive way. That you can share your side of the story without fighting or wanting to be right.

It's easier said than done of course, but I think I would try that first: try and have a good conversation about it.

Whatever you will do, I wish for you you find a solution together. Much luck.


A response to Kaja
> 2 years ago
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He is on the slippery slope to physical cheating

Violet
> 2 years ago
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My wife is currently doing the same and blatantly lies to me when I confront her about it. It hurts and I wish I had advice to give

Rob
> 2 years ago
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This is too sad 😢

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